Context:
I shared an article on my Facebook page Thursday
evening from the Angry Asian Man blog. I like this blog
and I have been a fan of it for around half a decade. A
friend had an issue with the article and we calmly discussed
it until we came to an agreement. We were respectful to
each other and the discussion ended. Hours later, a
38-year-old grown white man named Derrick charged into the
same Facebook status out of nowhere and began insulting me
and my comic book series. My comic book series was
completely irrelevant to the Angry Asian Man blog and the
previous discussion. He didn't challenge the article
directly. There was no build up, no reference to him in
the previous discussion, he wasn't friends with my friend,
and I hadn't interacted with Derrick much in almost five years. We were basically Facebook acquaintances at this point. Derrick tried to make a psychological profile of me for
him to easily attack based on my Facebook profile picture and the
name I use on Facebook. He believed that I was trying
to be a Thai woman or maybe that I was putting out the persona that
I was this woman... Somehow. Derrick didn't know the name of the
protagonist in my comic book series so he thought my Facebook
name was her name. I corrected him multiple times, but
he absurdly kept asserting that I was using my character's
name as my Facebook name. He was also convinced that
using a drawing of my character in an astronaut suit as my
Facebook profile picture meant that I was literally trying to
be a Thai woman... Somehow. He believed that agreeing
with the blog was the same thing as speaking on behalf of
Asian Americans. He then accused me of "whitesplaining." He isn't aware of my racial background. I asked Derrick why he thought I was whitesplaining and
he finally admitted that he just had a problem with me
personally. He wanted a fight for some reason. I
first tried to figure out why he had an issue with me, but he
refused to respond after that. As time passed and he wasn't responding, I
decided that arguing with a volatile pathetic little butthurt kid in a
38-year-old body who was only looking for a fight was a waste
of my time. I told him in a private message that I felt
disrespected and that I didn't want to be his friend. I
didn't know him very well so it was no loss for me. I
blocked him. I went on with my night and watched season
three of Black Mirror while eating delicious Chinese food since that's more important.
Meanwhile, this 38-year-old grown man became enraged by the
sudden realization that someone he disrespected wouldn't want
to be his friend on Facebook. Derrick turned into a
third grader, made a DeviantArt account, and began trashing
me through his fake DeviantArt account. This
demonstrated that Derrick is a toxic person who is only worth
blocking. He needed the last word with the stranger on
the internet, even though is 38. He gave my block
credence and seemed to think it was cowardly to not waste my time
feeding the troll. His new insults were as good as his ability to control his emotions. I once had a brief conversation with
Derrick in spring of 2011 in which he passively expressed the
discomfort he felt in a world of increasing diversity.
That conversation with Derrick in 2011 always struck me
as odd. We interacted only a handful of times over the
next year. It clicked that he had a problem with me and
my comic book series because the main character isn't white.
This white man in America felt so threatened by someone
having a protagonist who isn't white that he built resentment
and held it for years. I hope he doesn't mind a cameo in my comic.
Purpose:
Derrick shitting his pants in a crying racist rage
both amused me and motivated me to write this journal.
The purpose of this post is to explain what my series
is about. I've been writing and drawing a series about
an individual named Sawaporn Songlakranangpunlapong and her
struggle to cope with a world she will never adapt in.
She can only try to make it adapt to her. I
started this series on May 23, 2010 and I wasn't sure where I
wanted to take it. It was always about fun, but I
realized where the series should go by 2012. I address
institutionalized racism and the stupid things white people
do and say to Asian women, but I've never asserted that all
white people are terrible people or think alike. I'm
not writing a series about what it's like to be Asian or an
immigrant in the United States either. My artwork isn't
anti-white. It's anti-moron.
Sawaporn is an individual. I gave her a handful of my own
values and tastes, but I intentionally made her into someone
who does and thinks things I don't always agree with.
Sawaporn is a misanthropic malcontent, stubborn,
introspective, cautious, shameless, who does whatever she
wants, openly bashes the status quo, and lacks any filter
when she speaks. She not only lacks the ability to
connect with other humans, but she has no motivation or urge
to connect with other humans. She resorts to ridiculous
extremes in an attempt to physically distance herself from
people. However, she is also a compassionate and
empathetic secular humanist and feminist who always stands up
for her principles, even when she knows she has to kill to do
so. She hates people, she hates their presence, but she
loves the human race and believes it can be better. She
finds other humans confusing, frustrating, and bizarre.
The few respectful people she encounters perceive her
as confusing, frustrating, and bizarre. Similarly to
Sawaporn, many of the participants of the society she lives
in lack a speech filter, but they also lack compassion,
secular humanism, feminism, self-awareness, and generally
wear their true colors on their sleeves. Many of the
encounters she has with with disrespectful, racist, sexist,
or crazy people are often meant to either be over-the-top, accurate,
grotesque, or silly (sometimes those four things mix), but
cause permanent serious inconveniences and new struggles in
Sawaporn's life that aren't always immediately recognizable.
Alternatively, many of the her encounters with the same
types of people are superfluous and have no long-term impact
because that's how real life works. Sawaporn tries to
deal with everything on her own in her unique ways.
I felt that I should define what my story is and what it isn't in a deeper manner in case I ever became mildly famous and future racist white
reactionaries accuse me of having a hand in ... (LOL) ...
"White Genocide."